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Yisro

                                                G-d prepares to reveal Himself to the Jews at Mount Sinai.
The Text:
G-d said to [Moses], “Go to the people [and instruct them in preparation for the Revelation].”
                                                                          [Exodus 19:24]

G-d wanted to give the Ten Commandments. Moses was standing [atop Mount Sinai]. G-d said, “[If I say], ‘I am the L-rd your G-d,’ [the Jewish People] will say, ‘Who said it – G-d or Moses?’ Rather, let Moses descend, and then I shall say, ‘I am the L-rd your G-d.’” So G-d said to Moses, “Go to the people [and instruct them]…”
                                                                        [Midrash, Ibid.]

[G-d’s message to the people was a pretext; G-d hoped that Moses] would realize that He wants him to leave…. He did not want to tell [Moses] explicitly to leave, because He did not want to hurt his feelings.
                                                                       [Commentary of Maharzu on Midrash]

Question:
  1. Why would Moses be insulted if G-d told him to leave? He had done nothing wrong! G-d simply wanted to make it clear that He was uttering the commandments, and not Moses. Couldn’t G-d have explained to him this simple rationale?
      2.If there was no way to prevent Moses from feeing hurt, why did G-d sent him on a mission so that Moses “would realize that He wants him to leave” – isn’t that just telling him to leave in different words?

Answer:
The words “You do not belong here” have an inherently hurtful connotation. Instead, G-d implied it, without actually saying it. Human beings are sensitive to nuances of speech, even when there is no logical difference in the meaning.

Message:
Sensitivity is not a sign of weakness; it is one of the essential qualities of being human. Moses, the greatest prophet of all time, was incomparably rational; he was also “the humblest of all men.”[1] Yet even Moses could be affected by the choice of words, and G-d devised a strategy to avoid slighting him. We, too, must invest effort to ensure that our speech is always refined, sensitive and tactful.
                                                                                                        
[1] Numbers 12:3
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